QUESTION: I’m in an interview; I realize early on that this will not be a good fit. How can I end the interview without worry about possible repercussions?
Jennifer Gruwald, University of Connecticut
You should always see the interview to completion. You agreed to go to the interview and interviewers have taken time from their day to meet with you. Ask questions that may help you gain clarity. Be honest, but stay for the entire interview. If you know after that you are not interested, you may withdraw in writing after the interview, but reflect on that decision for 24 hours at minimum.
Lisa Hebert, LMH Advisors, Inc.
I encourage you to ask yourself if you have all the information you need to make that decision right then. Maybe reaching out to others after the interview to validate your perspectives will help you truly understand if it is a good fit or not. If you still find it isn’t a fit, a note to the recruiter letting them know you are no longer interested is appropriate. Bottom line, finish the interview.
Fred Coon, Stewart, Cooper, & Coon
Easy. Continue thought the interview. Why? Practice, Practice, Practice. At the end of the interview, thank them. If they make you an offer, you can politely refuse. So, practice your polite refusal. If they don’t make you an offer, then you will have had one more interview under your belt. Either way, you win.
Cathy Lanzalaco, Inspire Careers
This can be disappointing, but it happens. Interviews are meant to determine a fit on both sides, so if you are not feeling that the alignment is there, mention it. Your candor will be appreciated. Give the interviewer an opportunity to provide additional insights on the role that may change or confirm your initial assessment and allow you to move forward with confidence.
Grant Cooper, Strategic Resumes & Business Plans
Since the company and interviewer have reserved valuable time to extend and conduct an interview, any impression that you are electing to jettison yourself from the process may be interpreted as unprofessional. Even though you never intend to work at the company, reports about your lack of professionalism could reach others. Consider every interview as good practice, regardless of the outcome.
Nancy Grant, Regional Career & Employment Services
Always stay in the interview and at least build a good rapport and relationship. You never know what other job might develop from the conversation. Learn what you can and give it your best. If you end up with a job offer, you can always kindly decline and maybe even give them a referral for the perfect candidate now that you know what they really want.
Thomas Powner, Career Thinker, Inc.
📌I would not end the interview, and here is why:
1 – The conversation might shift, and your opinion can change.
2 – Your discussion can make the interviewer see you as a match for a different position at that company.
3 – We can all use interview practice; at the least, you can make great professional connections.”
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